In analyzing the situation the couple presents, one need to take the presented details, summarize the challenges being experienced and then try to develop a process in which the couple can work on a solution together, if one exists. There is the possibility that this couple has developed a marriage that is simply as good as it gets given the differences innately present in men and women. In the end, this will be something for the couple themselves to determine, as although the wife indicates unhappiness in her husbands emotional unavailability, occasionally people do complain about items in which they truly dont want to change, or make the effort to bring about the change.